rational sacrifice vs altuism

 

Sometimes a person has to sacrifice today to have a better future. How does this relate to altruism?

“Sacrifice” is a packaged word. You have to separate investment from altruistic self-immolation.

1) The rational “sacrifice today” is not a moral sacrifice

If you mean: I forgo a lesser, immediate value in order to gain a greater, long-range value—that is not sacrifice in the moral sense. It is rational trade across time.

Examples:

• Studying tonight instead of partying, to earn a degree and a career.
• Saving and investing instead of consuming everything now, to build capital and independence.
• Training, practicing, delaying gratification—because the future value is bigger.

That is self-interest properly understood: choosing by a hierarchy of values, guided by reason.

2) Altruism is not “planning” or “discipline”—it is selflessness as a moral ideal

Altruism (in Rand’s sense) is the doctrine that:

• the moral ideal is self-sacrifice,
• your life is morally owed to others,
• your highest virtue is serving others because they are others.

Under altruism, “sacrifice” means: giving up a higher value for a lower or non-value, typically for the sake of someone else’s need, with need as a moral claim.

So:

• Giving up a career you love to support an able-bodied mooch who refuses to work—that is sacrifice.
• Handing your earned wealth to others because “they need it”—that is altruism in action.

3) The crucial test: For whom and for what?

Ask two objective questions:

1. What am I giving up—higher or lower value?
2. What am I gaining—and is it my gain by my rational standard of life?

If the answer is: “I give up a lesser value now to secure a greater value later for my life,” that is rational selfishness, not altruism.

If the answer is: “I give up something important to me because someone else’s need is a moral mortgage on my life,” that is altruism.

4) Why this matters

Calling rational long-range planning “sacrifice” smuggles in the altruist premise that the self is not worth pursuing, and that suffering or loss is morally ennobling. It isn’t. Loss is not a virtue; achievement is.

In addition:

There are several additional points that make the issue precise (and prevent “sacrifice” from being used as a moral club).

1) Define “sacrifice” correctly

In Objectivism, sacrifice is not “effort,” “discipline,” or “pain.” It is:

• the surrender of a higher value for a lower value or a non-value.

So the presence of hardship doesn’t make an action a sacrifice. If the goal is a greater value to your life, the hardship is simply the price you pay—a trade in reality.

2) Time is part of rational valuation

A rational person evaluates values long-range. That means you often choose:

• enduring effort now to gain competence later,
• saving capital now to expand choices later,
• refusing a tempting short-term pleasure that would undercut a larger goal.

This is not “selflessness.” It is self-preservation and self-advancement by reason.

3) The altruist trick: equating “morality” with “pain”

Altruism commonly treats pain, renunciation, and loss as if they are evidence of virtue. That leads to a corrosive standard:

• “If it hurts, it’s moral.”
• “If you enjoy it, it’s suspect.”
• “If it benefits you, it’s selfish (therefore immoral).”

From an Objectivist view, that is a revolt against life. The moral purpose of values is to sustain and enrich your life, not to make you bleed for the sake of bleeding.

4) “Duty” vs. chosen values

A key difference is whether your action is:

• guided by your chosen rational values, or
• imposed by duty to others as an unchosen moral claim.

You can freely choose to help others you value—friends, family, a spouse, a business partner. But the moral basis is still your values, not their need as a trump card.

“Need” by itself is not a title to your time, money, or future.

5) Benevolence is not altruism

Objectivism is not “hatred of others.” It is the rejection of self-sacrifice as a moral ideal.

You can be benevolent—polite, helpful, generous—when it is consistent with your values and does not demand self-immolation. What is rejected is the principle: “Others come first.”

6) A practical checklist to tell investment from altruistic sacrifice

When you feel pressured to “sacrifice,” ask:

1. What exactly am I giving up? (Name the concrete value.)
2. What exactly am I getting? (Concrete benefit, not vague “being good.”)
3. Is the beneficiary someone I value—and why?
4. Would I still choose this if no one praised me or blamed me?
5. Is this a trade (including emotional trade), or is it an unearned moral claim on me?
6. Does this advance my long-range life and character—or drain it?

If the core reason is guilt, duty, or “they need it,” you’re in altruist territory.

7) The economic angle (why “sacrifice” gets politicized)

Altruism is the moral fuel for collectivist politics: it teaches that need is a claim and that producers are morally obligated to serve non-producers.

On a rational, capitalist view (as Reisman argues), production and progress come from self-interested, future-oriented investment—saving, capital accumulation, entrepreneurship. That is the opposite of altruism: it’s the moral and practical legitimacy of the producer’s life and mind.

8) One more distinction: “emergency help” is not a moral blank check

Helping in a genuine emergency can be rational and humane. But emergencies are:

• exceptions, not a moral model of daily life,
• not a justification for turning your whole existence into service to need.

A life built on “who needs me most?” is a life run by other people’s deficits.

Rule 4: Compare yourself to who you were yesterday,

 Rule 4: Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today.

Core MessageIn the modern world—filled with social media, global connectivity, and constant exposure to others’ highlight reels—it’s incredibly easy to feel inadequate. No matter how talented or accomplished you are, someone else will always outperform you in almost any domain. Comparing yourself to these external benchmarks leads to resentment, despair, nihilism, or paralysis.

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Instead, Rationality urges one to form a personal, incremental focus: Measure your progress against your own past self. Aim for small, daily improvements in your own life, judged by your standards. This builds genuine self-respect, motivation, and a sustainable path forward without the toxicity of envy or unrealistic ideals.

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Why External Comparison Fails

• Historical context: In small rural communities, it was easier to excel at something locally and receive positive feedback. Today, you’re benchmarked against billions.
• Inequality is real: A tiny percentage of people produce most of the output in any field (the “winner-take-most” dynamic). Standards matter—mediocrity has real consequences—but chasing “the best” globally crushes most people.
• Binary thinking trap: Viewing life as pure “success” or “failure” ignores nuance. There are many “games” (careers, relationships, hobbies), gradients of achievement, and unique personal circumstances. You’re likely overvaluing what you lack and undervaluing what you have. Others’ full stories (including struggles) are hidden.
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Rationality warns against bad responses like:

• Delusional positivity (“everyone’s a winner”).
• Nihilism (“nothing matters anyway”).
• Harsh self-criticism leading to apathy.

Practical Approach: Focus on Self-Improvement

1. Recognize your multidimensional life — You’re playing many games at once. You don’t need to win them all, and excelling in everything might mean you’re avoiding real challenges and growth.
2. Negotiate with yourself honestly — Treat yourself like someone you’re responsible for helping (linking to Rule 2). Identify what you truly want, drill into your discontent, and prioritize desires. Watch for bitterness or resentment as red flags. Be willing to adjust or abandon misaligned goals.
3. Aim small and incremental — Break improvements into tiny daily actions. Ask: “Can I make today slightly better than yesterday by my own standards?” Reward yourself for progress. Over months and years, this compounds dramatically. Your “aim” shapes what you notice and opportunities you see.
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4. Embrace vision’s cost — Human perception is narrow and goal-directed (like foveal vision). This filters chaos but blinds you to alternatives. When stuck, retool your values and goals—sometimes the problem is you (your framing or priorities), not life itself.

Rationality ties this to deeper themes: Humans are always “aiming” toward a better future. Proper aiming reduces unnecessary suffering, counters chaos, and fosters meaning. Incremental self-betterment is a humble, courageous alternative to arrogance, victimhood, or tyranny of impossible standards.Key TakeawayThis rule combats the soul-crushing effects of social comparison by redirecting energy inward toward voluntary, responsible growth. It’s realistic about human limitations and inequality while remaining optimistic about personal agency. Over time, consistent small wins raise your baseline, expand your vision, and make life more fulfilling—without needing to outshine everyone else.

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As with previous chapters, the book weaves in psychological insights, biblical references, and personal/clinical anecdotes for depth. Reading the original chapter provides the richest experience.

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Objective definitions

• Person: A rational agent capable of being harmed or benefited and directing actions over time.
• Time-indexed self (Self_t): The same person considered at a specific time t.
• Comparative evaluation: A standard by which an agent assesses status, progress, or worth to guide future action.
• Self-delta (ΔSelf): The difference between Self_today and Self_yesterday across chosen domains (e.g., health, skill, character), holding person identity fixed.
• External snapshot comparison: Evaluating Self_today against Another_today (a different person B at time t), typically without normalization for background variables.
• Actionability: The degree to which an evaluation directly indicates feasible next steps within the agent’s control.
• Control locus: The set of factors the agent can reliably influence in the relevant time horizon.
• Validity (for self-improvement): The extent to which a metric reliably tracks true improvement attributable to the agent’s actions rather than confounders.
• Proportionality: Suitability of demands relative to the agent’s current capacity, risks, and costs.
• Path dependence: The property that feasible progress depends on the agent’s current state and trajectory; steps must be sequenced.
• Scarcity of attention: The limited time and cognitive bandwidth an agent can devote to evaluation and planning.
• Social comparison harms: Predictable adverse effects of status-focused comparisons (envy, resentment, demoralization, hazardous shortcuts).
• Exemplar: Another person whose strategies and practices provide information about effective means without serving as a direct yardstick of self-worth.

Self-evident axioms, presuppositions, and standing assumptions

• A1 (Non-contradiction): One ought not affirm and deny the same principle in the same respect at the same time.
• A2 (Ought-implies-can): If an agent ought to adopt an evaluative standard S, then S must be feasible and sensitive to the agent’s actual control locus.
• A3 (Like cases alike): Standards should treat relevantly similar cases alike and adjust for relevant differences.
• A4 (Universalizability): A practical principle should be willable for all relevantly similar agents without incoherence.
• A5 (Nonmaleficence): One ought to avoid predictable, avoidable, and disproportionate harms to oneself and others.
• A6 (Beneficence, limited): Where costs are proportionate, one has reason to select practices that promote one’s flourishing and agency.
• A7 (Agency preservation): Maintaining and improving one’s agency is a standing reason, as agency enables pursuit of any other reasons.
• A8 (Control principle): Appraisals that guide obligation and planning should track factors under the agent’s control or reasonable influence.
• A9 (Information value): When choosing evaluative metrics for decisions, prefer measures with higher expected decision-relevant validity and lower noise.
• A10 (Resource rationality): Given scarce attention, allocate evaluative focus to options with higher expected improvement per unit of attention, subject to A5.
• A11 (Proportional progress): Required steps should be proportionate to the agent’s current state to avoid injury, burnout, or corruption.
• A12 (Fair opportunity): Standards should not penalize agents for unchosen, exogenous differences across persons.
• A13 (Externalities principle): Prefer norms that produce positive interpersonal externalities and avoid those that predictably corrode cooperation.

Poly-syllogism 1: Feasibility and control locate the proper baseline
Premises

• P1: By A2 and A8, the evaluative standard one ought to adopt should track variables one can control and feasibly influence.
• P2: Comparing Self_today to Self_yesterday (ΔSelf) predominantly tracks controllable factors (habits, effort, choices) within the agent’s feasible influence.
• P3: Comparing Self_today to Another_today embeds substantial exogenous, uncontrollable variance (genetics, early environment, network, luck, timing).
• P4: Standards that primarily track uncontrollables misallocate obligation and demotivate effective action, violating A2 and undermining A7.
• P5: Therefore, one ought to prefer ΔSelf as the governing evaluative standard over external snapshots.
  Derivation sketch
• From P1 by modus ponens with P2–P3, only ΔSelf satisfies control-feasibility; P4 rules out external snapshot as primary standard.
  Conclusion (Theorem 1)
• Theorem 1: You ought to adopt self-delta (today vs. yesterday) as your primary evaluative baseline rather than another person’s current state.

Poly-syllogism 2: Measurement validity and decision-usefulness
Premises

• P1: By A9, decision-guiding evaluations should maximize validity and minimize noise regarding improvement caused by one’s actions.
• P2: Within-person comparisons (ΔSelf) control for stable idiosyncrasies and thus increase causal attribution to one’s choices.
• P3: Cross-sectional interpersonal comparisons are confounded by unmeasured differences, reducing validity for self-improvement decisions.
• P4: Using low-validity, high-noise metrics predictably misguides planning and wastes effort, conflicting with A6 and A10.
• P5: Therefore, ΔSelf is the superior metric for guiding improvement.
  Derivation sketch
• Conjoin P1–P4; dominance reasoning selects ΔSelf on validity grounds.
  Conclusion (Theorem 2)
• Theorem 2: For decision-making about improvement, you ought to evaluate progress against who you were yesterday, not who someone else is today.

Poly-syllogism 3: Agency preservation and motivational quality
Premises

• P1: Evaluative standards causally shape motivation and perceived self-efficacy. (From A7)
• P2: ΔSelf emphasizes controllable increments, fostering efficacy and sustained engagement.
• P3: External snapshot comparisons amplify demoralization, envy, and learned helplessness when gaps reflect uncontrollables, predictably degrading agency. (A5, A7)
• P4: One ought to avoid standards that predictably degrade agency and select those that preserve it. (A5, A7)
• P5: Therefore, ΔSelf is normatively preferable to external snapshot comparison.
  Derivation sketch
• From P1–P4 via hypothetical syllogism and nonmaleficence, prefer the agency-preserving standard.
  Conclusion (Theorem 3)
• Theorem 3: To preserve and enhance agency, you should compare yourself to who you were yesterday rather than to who someone else is today.

Poly-syllogism 4: Fairness, like-cases, and universalizability
Premises

• P1: By A3 and A12, fair standards adjust for relevant differences and avoid penalizing agents for unchosen factors.
• P2: Interpersonal snapshots rarely equalize for unchosen differences; treating them as yardsticks violates A3/A12.
• P3: ΔSelf compares like with like—the same person across adjacent times—automatically respecting A3/A12.
• P4: A principle requiring agents to measure worth by others’ present states cannot be willed universally without imposing arbitrary, impossible burdens, violating A4.
• P5: Therefore, fairness and universalizability require preferring ΔSelf over external snapshots.
  Derivation sketch
• Apply A3 to P2–P3; apply A4 to reject the external-yardstick universalization.
  Conclusion (Theorem 4)
• Theorem 4: By fairness and universalizability, you ought to use yesterday’s you—not someone else today—as your comparative standard.

Poly-syllogism 5: Scarcity of attention and actionability
Premises

• P1: Attention and planning bandwidth are scarce resources. (A10)
• P2: Evaluative focus should maximize expected improvement per unit attention. (A10 with A6)
• P3: ΔSelf has high actionability: it maps directly to concrete next steps tailored to current constraints.
• P4: External snapshots are low-actionability for self-improvement; they often lack clear, feasible next steps for your situation.
• P5: Therefore, allocate evaluative attention to ΔSelf rather than external snapshots.
  Derivation sketch
• From P1–P4 via resource-rational optimization, ΔSelf dominates.
  Conclusion (Theorem 5)
• Theorem 5: Given scarce attention, you should focus comparisons on yesterday’s you, not on others’ present states.

Poly-syllogism 6: Path dependence and proportional progress
Premises

• P1: Improvement is path-dependent and should proceed by proportionate steps from the current state. (A11)
• P2: ΔSelf yields a local gradient for proportionate next actions (incremental load, scope, or difficulty).
• P3: External comparisons encourage disproportionate leaps (or shortcuts) that elevate risks of injury, burnout, or corruption, violating A5/A11.
• P4: One ought to choose evaluative standards that cue proportionate, low-risk progression. (A5, A11)
• P5: Hence, ΔSelf better satisfies proportionality and risk management than external snapshots.
  Derivation sketch
• From P1–P4 via modus ponens; risk-minimizing choice favors ΔSelf.
  Conclusion (Theorem 6)
• Theorem 6: To ensure proportionate, low-risk progress, you should compare yourself to yesterday’s you rather than to another’s today.

Poly-syllogism 7: Social externalities and relational health
Premises

• P1: Norms of evaluation have social spillovers. (A13)
• P2: External snapshot comparisons intensify status competition, envy, and zero-sum postures, corroding cooperation and trust. (Violates A5/A13)
• P3: ΔSelf reduces status fixation, enabling collaboration, goodwill, and honest learning from others. (Supports A6/A13)
• P4: Ceteris paribus, one ought to adopt norms with better externalities. (A13)
• P5: Therefore, prefer ΔSelf to external snapshots for healthier social environments.
  Derivation sketch
• From P2–P4 by constructive dilemma, select the norm with positive externalities.
  Conclusion (Theorem 7)
• Theorem 7: For social as well as personal reasons, you should compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today.

Poly-syllogism 8: Role of exemplars—guide, not yardstick
Premises

• P1: Others’ achievements can provide information about effective strategies and standards of excellence. (Epistemic utility)
• P2: Using exemplars as sources of techniques is compatible with evaluating progress by ΔSelf; these roles are logically distinct. (A1 avoids conflation)
• P3: Treating exemplars as direct yardsticks reintroduces the control, validity, and proportionality failures identified earlier. (Theorems 1–6)
• P4: A coherent norm integrates exemplar-informed means with ΔSelf-based evaluation. (A4 consistency; A9 information value)
• P5: Therefore, learn from others but anchor evaluation in ΔSelf.
  Derivation sketch
• From P1–P4 via conjunction, we preserve informational benefits without evaluative harms.
  Conclusion (Theorem 8)
• Theorem 8: You should use others as instructional guides while comparing yourself primarily to who you were yesterday.

Poly-syllogism 9: Synthesis to the target norm
Premises

• P1: From Theorems 1–8, ΔSelf uniquely satisfies feasibility, validity, agency preservation, fairness, actionability, proportionality, and positive externalities.
• P2: No external snapshot standard simultaneously satisfies these constraints without substantial normalization that effectively reduces to a ΔSelf-like assessment. (From P2–P3 of Poly-2 and P2 of Poly-4)
• P3: By A2 and A4, the standard one ought to adopt is the one that can be willed universally and feasibly enacted by agents in diverse circumstances—here, ΔSelf.
• P4: Therefore, absent special, fully normalized benchmarking contexts for narrow tasks, interpersonal present-state comparisons should not be your primary evaluative standard.
• P5: The guiding practical rule is: Compare yourself to who you were yesterday; do not compare yourself to who someone else is today.
  Derivation sketch
• Conjoin P1–P4; apply universal generalization to derive the guiding rule.
  Conclusion (Theorem 9 — target)
• Theorem 9: You should compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today; that is, for self-improvement and evaluation, anchor assessment in your own recent prior state and avoid using contemporaneous states of others as your yardstick, while freely learning techniques from exemplars.

Inference rules and forms used

• Universal instantiation and generalization; conjunction introduction/simplification; modus ponens; hypothetical syllogism; dominance reasoning; applications of ought-implies-can, nonmaleficence, beneficence, resource rationality; proportionality; and consistency/universalizability. Each poly-syllogism contains at least three premises in addition to its conclusion.
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In addition:

From a thymological standpoint, your question asks why an actor would choose a self-referential benchmark (who I was yesterday) instead of a social-status benchmark (who someone else is today). Here is an action-centered analysis.

1. Neutral restatement of the action

• The actor resolves to evaluate progress against their own prior state rather than against the present achievements of others.

2. Surface motives that make this attractive

• To avoid discouragement or envy from unfair comparisons.
• To maintain motivation through visible, controllable gains.
• To keep attention on actions within one’s agency.

3. Deeper reconstruction of the actor’s likely mental landscape

• Lifeworld and perceived alternatives: The actor senses that outward comparisons are distorted by unequal starting points, hidden advantages, and social-media curation. Yesterday’s self feels “fair” because it shares the same biography, constraints, and context-path.
• Valuations and ends: The actor values mastery and integrity over fleeting status. They prefer a narrative of steady becoming (craft, health, character) rather than chasing others’ teloi (ends) that may not fit their own.
• Emotions and volitions: Upward comparisons easily trigger resentment or paralysis; self-comparison converts threat into challenge—small wins, compounding habits, and recoverable setbacks.
• Agency protection: Yesterday’s baseline maximizes locus of control; it shrinks the role of luck and reduces learned helplessness. Progress depends more on deliberate practice than on uncontrollable social rankings.
• Identity continuity: Measuring against one’s past knits a coherent life-story—“I am becoming the person I intend to be”—which supports resolve during plateaus when external applause is absent.

4. Primary motive(s) + contributing factors

• Primary motives:
  • Preserve motivation by making progress legible and attributable to one’s choices.
  • Safeguard one’s ends from being colonized by others’ scripts; resist “borrowed telos.”
  • Reduce corrosive emotions (envy, shame) that sap attention and will.
• Contributing factors:
  • Past experience of demoralization from social comparison.
  • Long time horizon that prizes sustainable growth over quick status hits.
  • A context where signals are noisy (curation, nepotism, uneven opportunity), making external benchmarks unreliable day to day.

5. Alternative interpretations or uncertainties

• Risk of complacency: Self-referential metrics can become too forgiving. Periodic calibration against external standards (mentor feedback, industry benchmarks) guards against self-delusion.
• Value of exemplars: Comparing to others can inspire and reveal possibilities you wouldn’t imagine. The thymologically sound move is selective emulation, not identity-defining comparison.
• Domain dependence: In tournament settings (auditions, sales, rankings), external comparison matters for outcomes. The actor may pair daily self-comparison (training) with scheduled outward comparison (performance).

6. Most coherent thymological explanation

• Choosing to compare yourself to who you were yesterday is subjectively rational because it aligns the meaning-environment with your agency and chosen ends. It transforms status-laden threat into tractable challenge, stabilizes motivation through visible progress, protects identity from being rewritten by others’ narratives, and reduces the emotional tax of envy—thereby making the hard-but-valued path feel doable.

Practical heuristics (brief)

• Track one or two controllable metrics per domain (effort, reps, time on task). Review daily; trend weekly.
• Write a short “yesterday → today” improvement cue each morning; a 3-line retrospective each evening.
• Use exemplars monthly for calibration (What can I adopt?), not for daily self-worth.
• When external standards matter, separate practice (self-compared) from performance (externally compared) in time.

Brief note on thymology vs. praxeology here

• Praxeology would say: “Self-comparison is a means chosen to better reach your ends.” Thymology reconstructs why this means carries meaning for you—your aversion to unfair status games, your valuation of integrity and mastery, your biographical memory of demoralizing comparisons, and your desire for a coherent growth narrative. It explains why, in your lifeworld, self-referential progress feels both fair and energizing.

Sources for this response

• Primary conceptual frame: Ludwig von Mises — Theory and History (chapters on thymology and historical understanding); The Ultimate Foundation of Economic Science (the thymological method); Human Action (contrasts with psychology/history).
• Complementary interpretive tools: Max Weber (Verstehen; ideal types); Alfred Schütz (lifeworld, motives “in-order-to” vs. “because”); R.G. Collingwood (history as re-enactment of thought).
• Background insights on comparison, motivation, and bias used cautiously: Leon Festinger (social comparison as a recurring human pattern), Daniel Kahneman (cognitive biases shaping perceived fairness), Jonathan Haidt (moral intuitions in status dynamics), Viktor Frankl (will to meaning over will to status), Robert Cialdini (social proof pressures).
• The immediate analysis is thymological reasoning applied to common experience; no single empirical study is decisive for your particular case.

Finally:

Self-comparison gives you clear, controllable feedback loops that build competence and calm. Other-people comparison warps standards, fuels envy and shame, and undermines motivation.

Key psychological reasons

• Locus of control and self-efficacy

  • Comparing to your past keeps the target inside your control, strengthening an internal locus of control and Bandura-style self-efficacy. You see cause-and-effect between your actions and outcomes, which boosts persistence.

• Social comparison theory

  • Upward comparisons (to others who look “ahead”) often trigger envy, inadequacy, and rumination—especially on social media’s highlight reels. Self-comparison retains the benefits of feedback without the toxic affect.

• Self-discrepancy dynamics

  • Measuring yourself against others inflates the “ideal–actual” gap and invites guilt/shame. Tracking your own delta (today vs. yesterday) minimizes maladaptive discrepancy and keeps emotions regulated enough to keep improving.

• Control theory and the progress principle

  • Behavior change runs on feedback loops. “Am I closer than yesterday?” is crisp, immediate, and rewarding. Small wins create momentum, which predicts higher motivation and creativity.

• Growth mindset and identity formation

  • Self-comparison centers process (“I improve”) rather than fixed status (“I measure up”). It builds a durable identity of a learner, which is more resilient to setbacks.

• Cognitive load and stress reduction

  • Chasing others’ timelines adds uncertainty you can’t resolve, raising anxiety and cortisol. Self-referenced goals reduce noise, freeing attention for problem-solving.

• Reward learning

  • Visible, bite-sized progress generates reinforcing dopamine signals. Distant, social-status goals often feel unattainable, blunting reward and inviting procrastination.

When other-people comparisons help

• As information, not identity: to copy strategies, calibrate standards, or find role models. Use them to extract tactics, then return to self-based measurement of progress.

How to implement “better than yesterday”

• Define one or two lead measures you fully control (e.g., minutes practiced, pages written, outreach attempts), not just lag outcomes (grades, likes, revenue).
• Daily “delta” check: What got 1% better? What’s the smallest next action?
• Use if–then plans: “If it’s 7 pm, then I do 10 minutes of X.”
• Track visibly: simple habit streaks or a progress chart. Make wins concrete.
• Weekly review: note one bright spot (what worked), one bottleneck, one tweak.
• Contextualize dips: compare to your recent average, not a single bad day; adjust for sleep, illness, workload.

Pitfalls to avoid

• Complacent benchmarking: don’t cherry-pick a weak “yesterday” to rationalize stagnation; set a floor and a stretch.
• All-or-nothing thinking: improvement can be depth, quality, or reduced errors—not just speed or volume.
• Self-flagellation: use compassionate accountability—curious, not cruel—so feedback remains usable.

Bottom line
Self-comparison anchors motivation to controllable progress, stabilizes emotions, and strengthens identity as a capable learner. Borrow ideas from others—but measure your worth and momentum against your own trajectory.

Objectivism:

Rand would approve of the essence of it—with a crucial qualification.

What she’d agree with

The best part of that line is its rejection of social metaphysics (living by the judgment, status, or alleged “superiority” of others). Your standard should not be “How do I rank in the crowd?” but: Am I thinking, producing, and improving by my own rational judgment?

On that point, comparing yourself to who you were yesterday can reflect:

• independence (self-generated standards),
• rational ambition (the virtue of pride),
• a focus on self-responsibility and growth.

The qualification: don’t turn it into subjectivism or lowered standards

Rand would not endorse any slogan used to evade reality. If “compare only to yesterday” becomes an excuse to ignore objective facts—like the actual level of skill required to succeed in your profession—then it’s a dodge.

Reality sets the requirements:

• If you’re building a business, you must meet the market.
• If you’re training for a craft, you must meet the standards of the craft.
• If you’re competing, you must understand your competitors.

So the rational principle is:

• Don’t measure your worth by other people’s opinions or by status games.
• Do measure your performance by objective standards—and use others as data when relevant.

A more Objectivist formulation

“Judge yourself by objective requirements and your rational values; seek to surpass your past performance; treat other people not as a yardstick of worth but as potential traders, competitors, or exemplars—facts to learn from, not masters to impress.”

Bottom line

• As an antidote to envy and second-handedness: good.
• As a way to avoid competition, standards, or facts: bad.

Rule 3: Make Friends with People Who Want the Best for You

 Rule 3: Make Friends with People Who Want the Best for You.

Core Idea Your social circle profoundly shapes your life trajectory. Surround yourself with people who support your growth, encourage responsibility, and celebrate your successes. Avoid (or limit time with) those who drag you down through cynicism, resentment, nihilism, or self-destructive habits. Bad company doesn't just fail to lift you up—it actively pulls you toward chaos, lower standards, and potential ruin. Good friends, by contrast, act as mutual accountability partners who want you to aim higher.

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Personal Anecdotes  Example of some experiences growing up. One describes a friend (called “Chris”) who was angry, resentful (especially toward his father), and drifted into marijuana use and aimless partying with a cousin (Ed) and others. These gatherings were dreary and directionless. One, himself, eventually broke away, befriending ambitious newcomers in high school who inspired him to attend college and build a better life.

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In contrast, his old friends largely stayed stuck. Chris later suffered a psychotic break and committed suicide. One reflects on why some people repeatedly choose environments and relationships that harm them—often rooted in low self-worth, refusal to take responsibility, or a desire to repeat familiar suffering rather than risk growth.

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Why People Stay in Bad FriendshipsThere are several common (often unconscious) reasons:

• Loyalty (misplaced): Loyalty isn’t stupidity. It must be reciprocal and negotiated honestly.
• Savior complex: Feeling superior or virtuous by “rescuing” someone “beneath” you, which can mask narcissism, power dynamics, or avoidance of your own problems.
• Shared nihilism: Implicit group agreements to waste time, avoid goals, and indulge vices together.
• Fear or comfort: It can feel easier or safer to stay with familiar dysfunction than risk the vulnerability of standing near healthier, more ambitious people.
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One notes psychological evidence: Introducing a problematic person into a high-functioning group usually lowers the whole group’s performance to the lowest common denominator, rather than elevating the individual.

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Practical Advice and Test for FriendshipA key litmus test: Would you recommend this friendship to your sister, father, or son? If not, why keep it for yourself?

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True friends:

• Encourage you when you do well.
• Gently (or firmly) call out self-destructive behavior.
• Improve as you improve—they’re not threatened by your success.
• Want the best for you because your upward aim benefits the relationship mutually.

It’s not selfish to seek such friends; it’s responsible. Living well yourself can inspire others more effectively than ineffective “helping” that enables bad patterns.

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Broader ThemesThis rule ties into larger motifs: personal responsibility, order vs. chaos, and voluntary self-improvement. Your friends aren’t neutral—they’re part of the “tools” you use to build your life. Choose them as carefully as you would choose how to treat yourself. There is an emphasis on humility and courage: Being around excellent people can be intimidating because they highlight your own shortcomings, but that discomfort is growth.

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In short, Rule 3 is a call to audit your relationships honestly. Prioritize those that align with responsibility and long-term flourishing over short-term comfort or misguided loyalty. This choice supports the “aim up” ethos that runs through the entire book. 

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Logic Chain proving/showing that [you should make friends with those who want the best for you]

Objective definitions

• Person: A being with rational agency, interests, and the capacity to be harmed or benefited.
• Friendship: A reciprocal relationship marked by mutual goodwill, justified trust, and shared activity oriented toward each person’s objective flourishing across time.
• Wants the best for you: A stable, sincere, and practically wise disposition to promote your objective flourishing (health, virtue, competence, meaningful projects, autonomy, prosocial standing) and to avoid enabling your vices or self-harm.
• Objective flourishing (the best for you): The constellation of basic and higher goods that reliably contribute to your long-run well-being and agency (not mere momentary preference-satisfaction).
• Practical wisdom (phronesis): The capacity to discern and choose effective, proportionate means to genuine goods.
• Toxic/undermining associate: One whose stable disposition includes envy, exploitation, indifference to your basic goods, or reliable promotion of your vices or self-harm.
• Trustworthiness: Justified expectation that an agent both wills and competently promotes another’s good, and refrains from foreseeable, avoidable harm.
• Influence: The systematic effect close associates exert on a person’s beliefs, affect, habits, and choices through repeated, emotionally salient interaction.
• Scarcity of association: Time, attention, and emotional bandwidth are limited; close friendship slots are few and rivalrous.
• Standard of friendship: The set of norms a person endorses for evaluating who counts as a good friend and how friendship ought to be conducted.

Self-evident axioms, presuppositions, and standing assumptions

• A1 (Non-contradiction): One ought not affirm and deny the same principle in the same respect at the same time.
• A2 (Ought-implies-can): If one ought to do X, then X is feasible for that person.
• A3 (Like cases alike): Treat relevantly similar cases by the same standard; differences require morally relevant distinctions.
• A4 (Universalizability/consistency): Principles guiding choice ought to be willable for all relevantly similar agents without incoherence.
• A5 (Nonmaleficence): One ought to avoid imposing foreseeable, avoidable, disproportionate harms on oneself or others.
• A6 (Beneficence, limited): Where costs are proportionate, one has reason to confer benefits or prevent harms for those within one’s relational sphere.
• A7 (Agency preservation): Preserving and improving one’s agency and character is a standing reason, as agency is the enabling condition for pursuing any good.
• A8 (Influence principle): Repeated, emotionally salient associations predictably shape character and behavior; high-exposure ties have outsized causal impact.
• A9 (Reciprocity requirement): Genuine friendship is stably mutual; asymmetric goodwill that is not reciprocated fails the standard of friendship.
• A10 (Resource rationality): Given scarcity of association, one ought to allocate close relationships toward options with higher expected net contribution to flourishing, subject to A5.

Poly-syllogism 1: The telos of friendship favors those who want your best
Premises

• P1: Friendship aims at mutual promotion of each other’s objective flourishing through goodwill, trust, and shared life. (Definition of friendship)
• P2: A person who wants the best for you possesses a stable benevolent disposition toward your flourishing, ideally guided by practical wisdom. (Definition of “wants the best for you”)
• P3: Relationships that align with the essential aim of an institution (here, friendship’s telos) are normatively preferable to relationships that subvert or neglect that aim. (A4 with teleological coherence)
• P4: A friend who wants your best and has practical wisdom is more reliable at promoting your flourishing than one who is indifferent, envious, or exploitative. (Definitions + prudential regularity)
• P5: One has pro tanto reason to adopt relationship patterns that better realize the telos of that relationship. (A6 with institutional fit)
  Derivation sketch
• From P1–P2, benevolent-wisdom-directed persons instantiate friendship’s aim. From P3–P5 and dominance reasoning, relationships with such persons are normatively preferable.
  Conclusion (Theorem 1)
• Theorem 1: Ceteris paribus, you ought to form and maintain friendships with people disposed to want the best for you, as they best realize friendship’s aim.
  Premise count check: 5 premises (≥3)

Poly-syllogism 2: Curating high-influence ties for agency and character
Premises

• P1: Preserving and developing one’s agency and character is a standing reason. (A7)
• P2: Close friends are high-influence ties that significantly shape habits, norms, and choices. (A8)
• P3: Rational curation of high-influence ties requires selecting those that predictably support flourishing and avoiding those that predictably undermine it. (A5, A6, prudential coherence)
• P4: People who want your best predictably support your flourishing; toxic or indifferent associates predictably undermine it. (Definitions + A8)
• P5: Therefore, rational curation favors befriending people who want your best over those who do not. (From P1–P4)
  Derivation sketch
• By A8, close friends are leverage points; by A5–A7, select supportive over undermining influences.
  Conclusion (Theorem 2)
• Theorem 2: You ought, other things equal, to prefer and pursue friendships with those who want the best for you as part of responsibly curating your high-influence relationships.
  Premise count check: 5 premises (≥3)

Poly-syllogism 3: Nonmaleficence and risk management in friendship selection
Premises

• P1: One ought to avoid entering or sustaining relationships that foreseeably impose avoidable, disproportionate harms. (A5)
• P2: Envious, exploitative, or chronically indifferent associates pose elevated risks of psychological, moral, and practical harm. (Definition of toxic associate)
• P3: Befriending those who want your best reduces these harms and increases protective benefits (timely counsel, prosocial norms, early warning). (A6, A8)
• P4: When two options differ in expected harm with comparable opportunity cost, prudence requires choosing the less harmful option. (Dominance principle under A10)
  Derivation sketch
• From P1 and P2, avoid toxic ties; from P3 and P4, select benevolent ties.
  Conclusion (Theorem 3)
• Theorem 3: By nonmaleficence and prudential dominance, you ought to avoid friendships with undermining persons and instead befriend people who want the best for you.
  Premise count check: 4 premises (≥3)

Poly-syllogism 4: Reciprocity, trust, and the stability of friendship goods
Premises

• P1: Genuine friendship requires stable reciprocity of goodwill and support. (A9; definition of friendship)
• P2: Justified trust arises where there is evidence of goodwill and competence directed to one’s good. (Definition of trustworthiness)
• P3: People who want your best supply such evidence; those who do not cannot consistently ground justified trust. (Definitions)
• P4: The distinctive goods of friendship (reliable counsel, mutual aid, resilience, shared meaning) depend on justified trust sustained over time. (Structural feature of friendship)
• P5: Therefore, to secure the distinctive goods of friendship, one should choose friends disposed to want one’s best. (From P1–P4)
  Derivation sketch
• From P1–P4 via modus ponens and conjunction, trust-based stability tracks benevolent disposition; thus select for it.
  Conclusion (Theorem 4)
• Theorem 4: Selecting friends who want the best for you is necessary to reliably secure the constitutive and instrumental goods of friendship.
  Premise count check: 5 premises (≥3)

Poly-syllogism 5: Universalizability and the good-friend standard
Premises

• P1: A standard for choosing friends should be willable for all relevantly similar agents without contradiction. (A4)
• P2: You endorse that a good friend wills and works for the other’s best; you would recommend this to others. (Definition of friendship; common norm)
• P3: To be unwilling to apply this standard to your own friend selection while endorsing it for others is an incoherent double standard. (A1, A3)
• P4: Therefore, consistency requires using “wills my best” as a criterion in your own friend selection. (From P1–P3)
  Derivation sketch
• Hypothetical syllogism from P1–P3 yields P4.
  Conclusion (Theorem 5)
• Theorem 5: By universalizability, you ought to make friends with people who want the best for you, on pain of inconsistency.
  Premise count check: 4 premises (≥3)

Poly-syllogism 6: Guarding against the flattery objection
Premises

• P1: Wanting the best for you refers to objective flourishing and may require honest challenge and refusal to enable vice. (Definition of “best” + practical wisdom)
• P2: Sycophancy seeks your approval, not your best; it therefore fails the “wants the best” criterion. (Conceptual distinction)
• P3: Friends who want your best and possess practical wisdom provide corrective feedback and non-enabling support, improving outcomes. (A6, A8)
• P4: Therefore, selecting for “wants the best” does not license echo chambers; it filters for benevolent, truth-oriented allies. (From P1–P3)
  Derivation sketch
• By definition and exclusion, “wants the best” ≠ flattery; it implies truth-aligned benevolence.
  Conclusion (Theorem 6)
• Theorem 6: The norm “befriend those who want your best” favors corrective, growth-promoting friendships rather than mere flattery, strengthening its normative force.
  Premise count check: 4 premises (≥3)

Poly-syllogism 7: Scarcity and prioritization of close ties
Premises

• P1: Time, attention, and emotional energy for close friendship are scarce. (A10)
• P2: Rational allocation under scarcity aims to maximize expected net contribution to flourishing subject to nonmaleficence. (A5, A10)
• P3: Relative to alternatives, people who want your best yield higher expected net flourishing for you and the network (mutual aid, positive norms). (Theorems 1–4)
• P4: Therefore, you ought to prioritize initiating and maintaining friendships with people who want your best. (From P1–P3)
  Derivation sketch
• Apply resource-rational choice to the friendship portfolio problem; select highest expected value options consistent with A5.
  Conclusion (Theorem 7)
• Theorem 7: Given scarcity, you should allocate close-friendship capacity first to those who want the best for you.
  Premise count check: 4 premises (≥3)

Poly-syllogism 8: Positive externalities and wider duties
Premises

• P1: Improving your flourishing expands your capacity to meet duties to others. (A7; capability spillover)
• P2: Networks of friends who want one another’s best create prosocial externalities (trust cascades, cooperative norms, mutual aid). (A6, A8)
• P3: Norms that reliably produce positive externalities gain additional moral weight. (A6 with public reason)
• P4: Befriending those who want your best reliably produces these externalities more than alternatives. (From Theorems 1–4)
  Derivation sketch
• Conjoin P1–P4; by beneficence, prefer the norm with positive spillovers.
  Conclusion (Theorem 8)
• Theorem 8: Beyond self-regard, making friends with people who want the best for you advances wider goods, reinforcing the obligation.
  Premise count check: 4 premises (≥3)

Synthesis and target conclusion

• From Theorems 1–8 via conjunction introduction and universal instantiation, we derive the target norm under feasibility and proportionality constraints (A2, A5, A10).
  Final conclusion (Theorem 9 — target)
• Theorem 9: You should make friends with people who want the best for you; that is, when feasible and proportionate, you ought to preferentially initiate, invest in, and sustain friendships with agents who sincerely and wisely will your objective good.

Inference rules and forms used

• Universal instantiation and generalization; conjunction introduction/simplification; modus ponens; hypothetical syllogism; dominance reasoning; applications of ought-implies-can, nonmaleficence, beneficence, and universalizability; considerations of resource constraints.

Why 

From a thymological standpoint, the question is about the wisdom of choosing companions whose valuations and volitions are oriented toward your flourishing. Here is an action-centered analysis.

1. Neutral restatement of the action

• The actor considers forming or maintaining friendships specifically with people who demonstrably want their good—who celebrate their wins, give honest feedback, and act in ways consistent with the actor’s long-run flourishing.

2. Surface motives that make this attractive

• Desire for encouragement, reduced conflict, and a supportive environment.
• Hope for practical help (information, introductions, accountability).
• Avoidance of envy, sabotage, or subtle undermining.

3. Deeper reconstruction of the actor’s likely mental landscape

• Given their lifeworld (family scripts, prior betrayals or loyalties, cultural norms around friendship), the actor notices that friends set the “moral weather”: what is normal, admirable, shameful, or possible. People who want your best shift that weather toward aspiration rather than resentment.
• The actor likely values trustworthy signals: friends who are glad when you improve, who do not interpret your progress as a status threat, and who can feel “benevolent envy” (inspiration) rather than malicious envy (desire to pull you down).
• The actor recognizes self-deception risk: real allies provide candid feedback that protects you from shortsighted comfort and helps you endure near-term pain for long-term goods you already value (health, craft, integrity, vocation).
• The actor experiences lowered vigilance costs: with supportive friends, less energy is spent monitoring for hidden agendas, freeing attention for creation, learning, and risk-taking.
• Identity co-authorship: friends help narrate who you are becoming. Those who want your best reinforce a narrative of competence, growth, and moral steadiness instead of cynicism or victimhood.

4. Primary motives and contributing factors

• Primary motives:
  • To align one’s immediate social sphere with one’s long-run ends (flourishing, mastery, meaningful relationships).
  • To secure honest counsel and encouragement that make difficult but valuable choices psychologically possible.
  • To prevent the corrosive effects of envy/resentment in close quarters.
• Contributing factors:
  • Prior experiences of being undermined or guilted for succeeding.
  • Sensitivity to status dynamics; a preference for cooperative over zero-sum friendship scripts.
  • A long time horizon (willingness to trade short-term comfort for durable well-being).
  • Cultural narratives that treat friendship as character-forming, not merely entertaining.

5. Alternative interpretations and uncertainties

• “Wanting the best for you” can be paternalistic if their vision of “best” conflicts with yours. The actor must test for respect of your agency: do they support your ends as you understand them, or only their plan for you?
• Excessive agreeableness can masquerade as support; true allies sometimes confront you. The actor must distinguish soothing from stewardship.
• Exclusively surrounding oneself with cheerleaders can create echo chambers; the actor benefits from friends who both care and disagree.
• Some relationships that don’t centrally “want your best” (e.g., purely recreational ties) can still be harmless or restorative—if they don’t erode your core commitments.

6. Most coherent thymological explanation

• Choosing friends who want the best for you is subjectively rational because it reshapes your immediate meaning-environment toward your valued ends. Such friends reduce the psychological friction of good choices, counteract self-deception with benevolent candor, inoculate against envy-driven sabotage, and co-create an identity narrative in which your growth is intelligible and welcomed. In lived experience, this yields an upward spiral: trust lowers vigilance, lowered vigilance frees energy, freed energy supports bolder efforts, and bolder efforts invite further honest support.

Practical cues for identifying them (interpretive heuristics)

• They celebrate your progress without one-upping or dampening it.
• They are willing to risk awkwardness to protect your longer-term good.
• They respect your agency: they offer counsel, not control.
• Your successes expand the relationship; they do not shrink it.
• In conflict, they aim to repair rather than to score points.

Brief note on thymology vs. praxeology here

• Praxeology would say: “Selecting supportive friends is a purposeful choice to better achieve your ends.” Thymology goes further: it reconstructs the concrete meanings—your fear of being resented, your love of candid encouragement, the cultural script of friendship as moral weather, the desire to live a story of growth. It explains why, in your specific lifeworld, allies who want your best make your hard-but-valued choices feel possible.

Sources for this response

• Primary conceptual frame: Ludwig von Mises — Theory and History (sections on thymology and Verstehen); The Ultimate Foundation of Economic Science (thymological method); Human Action (contrasts with psychology/history).
• Complementary interpretive tools: Max Weber (Verstehen and ideal types); Alfred Schütz (lifeworld/typifications); R.G. Collingwood (history as re-enactment of thought).
• Practical motive patterns referenced cautiously: Robert Greene (recurring social motives, envy); Jonathan Haidt (moral foundations shaping group dynamics); Daniel Kahneman (biases/self-deception as factors in everyday decisions); Robert Cialdini (social proof, commitment/consistency) and Viktor Frankl (will to meaning) as background understanding.
• Immediate analysis is based on thymological reasoning and common human experience rather than empirical studies specific to your case. If you share details about your context, I can refine the reconstruction.

Why

because the people who genuinely want the best for you become a secure base, a mirror, a compass, and a catalyst. They lower your stress, sharpen your judgment, and raise your standards—all of which compound into better mental health, character, and outcomes.

Key psychological reasons

• Stress buffering and resilience

  • Warm, trustworthy bonds reduce perceived threat and cortisol, making challenges feel manageable. Social support consistently predicts lower anxiety and depression and better stress recovery.
  • “Social baseline” principle: when you feel backed, your brain treats effort as less costly, so you persist more.

• Secure base for growth

  • Attachment dynamics apply to friendships: when you feel safe, you explore more. Supportive friends expand your “zone of proximal development,” enabling bolder, smarter risks.

• Honest, benevolent feedback (calibration)

  • Friends who want your best tell you the truth with care. Accurate feedback reduces blind spots, curbs self-deception, and prevents costly errors. It also strengthens self-efficacy because progress becomes trackable and real.

• Pygmalion and goal contagion

  • Expectations are contagious: being around people who expect you to act with competence and integrity nudges you to meet those expectations. Aspirations and habits spread through networks.

• Norms and identity shaping

  • We internalize the standards of our close circle. If their norms are effort, accountability, and responsibility, those become your default. Identity-based habits are easier than white-knuckled willpower.

• Emotion regulation and broaden-and-build

  • Encouraging friends amplify positive emotions like gratitude and “elevation,” which broaden attention and creativity, helping you see more options and build lasting resources.

• Motivation without enabling

  • Wanting the best for you means support plus accountability. They’ll empathize without indulging self-sabotage—protecting long-term goals from short-term impulses.

• Opportunity flow and reciprocity

  • People rooting for you share information, vouch for you, and celebrate your wins—multiplying opportunities and reinforcing pro-social motivation.

How to recognize people who truly want the best for you

• They celebrate your success without envy and don’t minimize it.
• They keep confidences; your vulnerabilities aren’t weaponized.
• They challenge you respectfully when you’re off-course.
• They respect your boundaries and time.
• They support action (problem-solving), not just co-rumination.
• They give credit, share opportunities, and don’t keep score.
• They are reliable in small things—showing up, following through.

Red flags that they don’t

• Subtle digs after your wins; chronic one-upmanship.
• Advice that enables procrastination or self-destruction.
• Gossip about you; shifting stories; broken promises.
• Enjoying your setbacks a little too much; “help” that creates dependency.
• You leave interactions drained, confused, or morally compromised.

How to cultivate these friendships

• Be that friend first: dependable, candid, and fair.
• Make goals explicit; invite honest feedback and set “disagreement is welcome” norms.
• Share progress and setbacks; ask for concrete input, not vague praise.
• Prune corrosive ties; your bandwidth (and willpower) is finite.
• Create shared projects or challenges—joint striving deepens bonds.

A quick 30‑day experiment

• Pick two relationships that feel pro-growth. Schedule weekly check-ins with clear goals.
• Ask each other: What’s one behavior to reinforce this week? What’s one blind spot to correct?
• Track stress, consistency, and progress. Most people notice better follow-through and calmer decision-making within weeks.

Bottom line
Friends who want the best for you don’t just make you feel good; they change how your mind appraises threat, how your identity forms, and how your standards stick. Over time, that compounds into healthier psychology, stronger character, and better outcomes. Choose—and be—those friends.

The A=Score rating for existentialism

 Here’s the scope used.

• Subject: Existentialism (core themes across major theistic and atheistic strands: Kierkegaard, Marcel, Heidegger, Sartre, Camus, de Beauvoir)
• Timeframe: Canonical era 1840–1970 with durable interpretations to the present
• Context: Global philosophy/ethics only
• In-scope: Metaphysics, freedom/responsibility, authenticity, truth/absurd, intersubjective ethics
• Out-of-scope: Contingent political alliances or party programs
• Weights: Updated A-Score standard weights

A-Score for Existentialism (SPOTM formula)

• Overall A-Score: 65/100 — Mixed to moderately aligned with SPOTM.

Sub-scores with one‑line rationales

• Alignment with God vs Misalignment with God — 35
  • Atheistic strands deny a creator and objective moral order; theistic strands affirm God but via paradox and subjective faith rather than objective theistic monism (e.g., Kierkegaard’s “leap of faith”).
• Reality vs Evasion of Reality — 72
  • Confronts finitude, death, and absurdity head-on; authenticity requires facing facts (Camus’s revolt; Heidegger’s being‑toward‑death); little tolerance for self‑deception.
• Reason/Rationality vs Emotionalism — 58
  • Uses rigorous phenomenology and argument (Sartre, de Beauvoir) yet critiques systematizing reason and sometimes elevates non-rational commitment (Kierkegaard’s Abraham).
• Volition/Voluntary vs Force — 88
  • Radical personal freedom and responsibility are core; bad faith is condemned; duties arise from free choice and recognition of others, not compulsion.
• Freedom vs Statism — 70
  • Strong anti‑authoritarian ethos (Camus; de Beauvoir on oppression) but no explicit limited‑state framework; remains a moral‑existential, not institutional, doctrine.
• Individualism vs Collectivism — 82
  • Self-authorship and authenticity center the individual; intersubjective ethics moderates but does not displace individual primacy.
• Rational Egoism vs Compelled Altruism — 66
  • Affirms self-authorship and freely chosen projects; solidarity and care for others are argued, not coerced (de Beauvoir’s reciprocity).
• SPOTM Meta‑alignment — 56
  • High coherence on consent, authenticity, and anti-domination; tensions with SPOTM’s objective theism and techno‑libertarian production ethos.

Key drivers (raised the score)

• Deep commitment to personal freedom/responsibility and authenticity.
• Candid confrontation with reality (death, absurdity) over wishful narratives.
• Ethics of non-coercive recognition of others’ freedom.

Key drivers (lowered the score)

• Atheistic/anti‑essentialist strains oppose SPOTM’s objective theistic monism.
• Ambivalence toward systematizing reason; emphasis on subjective commitment.
• No explicit institutional model for limited government or market value‑creation.

Confidence

• Overall: Medium. Doctrinal diversity (theistic vs atheistic, phenomenological vs literary) introduces variance; nevertheless, the core themes are stable.

Computation

• Weighted sum = 0.18×35 + 0.16×72 + 0.16×58 + 0.14×88 + 0.12×70 + 0.10×82 + 0.08×66 + 0.06×56 = 64.66 → 65.

The A-Score rating for Keynesianism

 Here’s an A‑Score for “mainstream Keynesianism” (countercyclical fiscal + activist monetary policy + automatic stabilizers as practiced in advanced mixed economies):

A‑Score: 51/100 → Mixed / Problematic. This reflects SPOTM’s emphasis on high individualism, reason, freedom, and rational egoism; Keynesianism’s reliance on centralized demand management and fiscal-monetary discretion drags the score down despite its analytic, evidence-based pedigree. (manypossibilities1.blogspot.com)

Sub‑scores (0–100) and rationale

• Aligned/Misaligned: 52. Uses models and data to address recessions, but tends toward short‑termism, politicization, and distortion of price signals via coercive demand management. (manypossibilities1.blogspot.com)
• Individualism/Collectivism: 40. Leans on aggregate targets and centralized discretion rather than decentralized, voluntary coordination. (manypossibilities1.blogspot.com)
• Reason/Emotion: 65. A rigorous, academic tradition; policy narratives sometimes lean on “animal spirits” and political optics. (imf.org)
• Freedom/Statism: 42. Expands the fiscal state and empowers central banks to steer macro outcomes, increasing coercive reach over time. (manypossibilities1.blogspot.com)
• Rational Egoism/Compelled Altruism: 50. Mixes voluntary exchange with compulsory transfers/subsidies; can entrench moral hazard and rent‑seeking. (manypossibilities1.blogspot.com)

Computation (SPOTM A‑Score weights)
A = 0.35×52 + 0.20×40 + 0.20×65 + 0.15×42 + 0.10×50
= 18.2 + 8.0 + 13.0 + 6.3 + 5.0 = 50.5 ≈ 51. The weights and interpretation bands come from the SPOTM A‑Score template. (manypossibilities1.blogspot.com)

Notes and variants

• Constrained, rules‑based Keynesianism (temporary, debt‑neutral over the cycle, strong automatic stabilizers, clear sunsets): typically 55–60.
• Discretionary, prolonged stimulus/industrial‑policy Keynesianism (persistent deficits, politicized credit): typically 35–45.
  These shifts reflect SPOTM’s ideals of high individualism and freedom with reason-led policy. (manypossibilities1.blogspot.com)

Scope check
By “Keynesianism” here I mean the mainstream policy mix that justifies countercyclical fiscal/monetary intervention to stabilize output and employment; see IMF’s overview and New Keynesian summaries for context. (imf.org)

Learn more

• The (A‑Score) tool and weights (SPOTM policy evaluation template). (manypossibilities1.blogspot.com)
• SPOTM core: why the framework privileges individualism, freedom, and reason (techno‑libertarian alignment). (manypossibilities1.blogspot.com)
• What is Keynesian economics? IMF Back to Basics. (imf.org)
• New Keynesian economics (policy rationale for intervention). (econlib.org)

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Learn more:

1. many possibilities blog: The (A-score) tool for evaluating policies/programs
2. What Is Keynesian Economics? - Back to Basics Compilation Book - IMF Finance & Development magazine
3. many possibilities blog: SPOTM
4. New Keynesian Economics - Econlib

The (A-score) tool for evaluating policies/programs and more

 The aligned/misaligned ratio is a number based on a ratio of the degree of (alignment with reality and God)/(denial of reality or alignment with God)

Adding the Aligned / Misaligned ratio to the other four ratios works very well and actually serves as a powerful overarching or master ratio that integrates and evaluates the other four ratios.

Updated SPOTM Five-Ratio Framework

Here’s the expanded and integrated system:

Ratio	High / Healthy Side	Low / Unhealthy Side	SPOTM Ideal Range	Relationship to Other Ratios
Aligned / Misaligned	High Alignment with Reality & Divine Order	High Misalignment (Denial of Reality)	80–90% Aligned	Master Ratio – evaluates all others
Individualism / Collectivism	High Individualism	High Collectivism	80–90% Individualism	Strongly supports Alignment
Egoism / Altruism	Rational Egoism + Voluntary Altruism	Defensive Egoism + Compelled Altruism	Balanced Rational Egoism	Supports Alignment when rational
Freedom / Statism	High Freedom / Low Statism	High Statism	75–85% Freedom	Strongly supports Alignment
Reason / Emotion	High Reason	High Emotion	80–90% Reason	Strongly supports Alignment

How the New “Aligned / Misaligned” Ratio Functions

• Aligned = Thinking, acting, and structuring society in accordance with:
  • Objective reality
  • Reason and evidence
  • Individual rights and responsibility
  • Spontaneous order and voluntary cooperation
  • Long-term consequences
• Misaligned = Thinking, acting, and structuring society in opposition to the above (emotionalism, collectivism, denial of reality, coercion, short-term thinking, etc.).

Key Insights from SPOTM

• The Aligned / Misaligned ratio is the result of the other four ratios working together. High scores on Individualism, Rational Egoism, Freedom, and Reason → High overall Alignment.
• It acts as a diagnostic master ratio. You can use it to evaluate any policy, culture, or personal decision:
  • Does this increase overall alignment with reality and the Divine Order?
  • Or does it increase misalignment?
• Feedback Loop: High alignment in one ratio tends to reinforce alignment in the others. Misalignment in one area tends to spread and degrade the whole system.

SPOTM Ideal Target

SPOTM aims for a society that maintains:

• Aligned / Misaligned: 80–90% Aligned
• All supporting ratios (Individualism, Reason, Freedom, Rational Egoism) strongly tilted toward the healthy side.

This combination produces what SPOTM calls Rational Autonomy — free, responsible individuals living in alignment with objective reality and the Divine Order.

In addition:

SPOTM can define a single, unified metric called the A-Score to evaluate the value of any policy, law, institution, or cultural practice.

The A-Score

Definition: A single number from 0 to 100 that represents how well a policy aligns with objective reality, reason, individual rights, and long-term human flourishing.

• 100 = Perfectly Aligned (maximizes truth, rights, reason, and sustainable flourishing)
• 50 = Neutral / Mixed
• 0 = Completely Misaligned (denies reality, violates rights, causes net harm)

How to Calculate the A-Score (Practical Framework)

The A-Score is derived from the five key ratios we’ve discussed:

A-Score = Weighted Average of the Five Ratios

Ratio	Weight	Healthy Direction	Example Impact
Aligned / Misaligned (Master)	35%	Toward Alignment	Core diagnostic
Individualism / Collectivism	20%	Toward Individualism	Foundation of liberty
Reason / Emotion	20%	Toward Reason	Quality of decision-making
Freedom / Statism	15%	Toward Freedom	Level of coercion
Rational Egoism / Compelled Altruism	10%	Toward Rational Egoism	Incentive structure

Examples of A-Scores for Major Policies

Policy	Estimated A-Score	SPOTM Reasoning
Strong Property Rights + Low Taxes	92	Extremely high alignment
Free Speech Protections	90	High reason + freedom
Secure Borders + Merit-Based Immigration	85	High individualism + realism
School Choice	82	High individualism + reason
Basic National Defense	80	Necessary for freedom
Moderate Welfare with Work Requirements	65	Mixed — helps some but creates dependency
Minimum Wage Laws	45	Distorts markets
Wealth Tax	28	Violates property rights
Open Borders + Strong Multiculturalism	22	High misalignment
Full Government Healthcare Monopoly	18	High statism + inefficiency
Police / Prison Abolition	12	Extremely misaligned
Reparations Based on Race	8	Strong collectivism + injustice

SPOTM Guidelines for Using the A-Score

• Above 75: Generally good / worth supporting
• 60–75: Mixed — may have some value but needs major improvements
• 40–60: Problematic — likely causes net harm
• Below 40: Strongly opposed — usually destructive

The goal in SPOTM governance is to maximize the average A-Score across all major policies in a society.

Final Thought

A single (A-Score) is not only possible but extremely useful. It gives us a clear, rational, and consistent way to evaluate every policy against objective reality and long-term human flourishing rather than emotion, political tribalism, or short-term optics.

This metric naturally favors policies that are:

• Individualistic
• Reason-based
• Freedom-oriented
• Based on rational self-interest + voluntary cooperation

Furthermore:

Here is a clean, simple, and practical Evaluation Template based on the SPOTM (A-Score) system.

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SPOTM Policy Evaluation Template

Policy / Idea Being Evaluated: (Write the name or description of the policy here)

Step 1: Rate Each Ratio (0–100 scale)

Ratio	Score (0–100)	Brief Reasoning
Aligned / Misaligned (Master Ratio)
Individualism / Collectivism
Reason / Emotion
Freedom / Statism
Rational Egoism / Compelled Altruism

Step 2: Calculate the (A-Score)

A-Score Formula:

$$\text{A-Score}=(0.35\times \text{Aligned})+(0.20\times \text{Individualism})+(0.20\times \text{Reason})+(0.15\times \text{Freedom})+(0.10\times \text{Rational Egoism})$$

Final A-Score: ________ / 100

Step 3: Interpretation

A-Score Range	Judgment	Recommendation
80 – 100	Strongly Aligned	Strongly Support
65 – 79	Mostly Aligned	Support with modifications
50 – 64	Mixed / Problematic	Significant concerns
30 – 49	Misaligned	Oppose
0 – 29	Strongly Misaligned	Strongly Oppose

Step 4: Overall SPOTM Verdict

Final Verdict: (e.g., Strongly Aligned, Misaligned, Strongly Misaligned)

Key Strengths: (List 1–3 main positives)

Key Weaknesses / Misalignments: (List 1–3 main problems)

Recommended Alternative (if misaligned): (Brief suggestion)

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How to Use This Template

1. Fill in the policy name at the top.
2. Score each of the five ratios honestly (be as objective as possible).
3. Calculate the weighted A-Score.
4. Use the Interpretation table and write your final verdict.

Example Usage (for quick reference):

• Policy: Wealth Tax → A-Score ≈ 25 → Strongly Misaligned
• Policy: Secure Borders + Merit-Based Immigration → A-Score ≈ 85 → Strongly Aligned

Finally:

SPOTM Policy Evaluation Template

Policy / Idea Being Evaluated:

Preventing Iran from acquiring a nuclear weapon

Step 1: Rate Each Ratio (0–100 scale)

Ratio	Score (0–100)	Brief Reasoning
Aligned / Misaligned (Master Ratio)	88	Strongly aligned with realism, national security, and protecting civilization from a dangerous regime.
Individualism / Collectivism	75	Prioritizes protecting free societies and individuals over appeasing a collectivist theocratic regime.
Reason / Emotion	85	Based on evidence of Iran’s behavior, nuclear ambitions, and stated goals rather than wishful thinking.
Freedom / Statism	82	Defensive use of power to protect liberty from authoritarian expansion (not offensive statism).
Rational Egoism / Compelled Altruism	80	Rational self-interest and civilizational self-preservation, not naive altruism toward a hostile regime.

Step 2: Calculate the (A-Score)

A-Score = (0.35 × 88) + (0.20 × 75) + (0.20 × 85) + (0.15 × 82) + (0.10 × 80) = 30.8 + 15.0 + 17.0 + 12.3 + 8.0 = 83.1 / 100

Step 3: Interpretation

A-Score Range: 80 – 100 → Strongly Aligned

Step 4: Overall SPOTM Verdict

Final Verdict: Strongly Aligned

Key Strengths:

• Protects individual rights and liberty by preventing a hostile, theocratic regime from gaining nuclear weapons.
• Grounded in evidence and realism about Iran’s ideology, behavior, and stated goals.
• Serves rational self-interest and civilizational self-preservation for America and the free world.
• Upholds the principle that aggressive, expansionist regimes must be deterred or prevented from acquiring existential weapons.

Key Weaknesses / Misalignments:

• Minor risk of overreach or unintended escalation if not executed with strategic wisdom (though this is manageable with competent leadership).

Recommended Alternative (if needed): None required. Preventing a nuclear Iran is one of the clearest and most justified uses of American power. SPOTM supports a firm, credible strategy (diplomatic pressure, sanctions, military deterrence, and if necessary, targeted action) to ensure Iran never acquires nuclear weapons.

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Overall SPOTM Assessment: Preventing Iran from acquiring nuclear weapons scores 83.1 — a strongly aligned policy. It is a rational, necessary, and morally defensible use of power in defense of civilization against a regime that openly threatens genocide and regional domination.

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Here is an updated version and procedure for determining the A-Score:

Use this version from now on to evaluate policies. programs, ideas, people, worldviews, religions, etc.

The (A-score) tool for evaluating Below are clear, copy-pastable instructions to compute and explain the A-Score consistently with SPOTM and your updated dimensions. Purpose and scope Goal: Rate any subject (worldview, philosophy, person/administration, policy, program, technology) on SPOTM alignment via eight ratios. Each sub-score is 0–100, higher = more alignment with the left term. The overall A-Score is a weighted sum. Scope setup: Always ask for clarifying parameters before scoring: subject, timeframe, jurisdiction/context, and what counts as “in scope” vs “out of scope” (policies vs rhetoric; personal traits only if they systematically affect policy). Dimensions and weights (sum = 100%) Alignment with God / Misalignment with God — 18% Reality / Evasion of Reality — 16% Reason/Rationality / Emotionalism/Irrationality — 16% Volition/Voluntary / Force — 14% Freedom / Statism — 12% Individualism / Collectivism — 10% Rational Egoism / Compelled Altruism — 8% Overall Alignment with SPOTM (meta-consistency) — 6% Operational definitions with scoring anchors Score each 0–100 using these anchors; default midpoint is 50 when evidence is mixed/unclear. Alignment with God vs Misalignment with God 100: Explicitly affirms an objective, panentheistic order with truth, personhood, freedom, and consent as divinely grounded; policy/ethics honor this. 75: Affirms objective theism or functionally equivalent moral realism; consistently protects consent and truth. 50: Theologically agnostic/neutral but not hostile; mixed record on consent/truth. 25: Actively sidelines or undermines objective theistic moral order; routine instrumentalization of persons. 0: Nihilistic or anti-real metaphysics used to justify coercion, deception, or domination. Reality vs Evasion of Reality 100: Strong truth realism; transparent with facts; corrects errors quickly. 75: Generally reality-oriented; occasional motivated reasoning corrected by evidence. 50: Mixed truth orientation; selective transparency. 25: Routine narrative-maintenance over facts; obstruction of falsification. 0: Systematic denial/manufacture of “reality” to serve power. Reason/Rationality vs Emotionalism/Irrationality 100: Evidence-driven, falsifiable hypotheses, cost-benefit discipline; emotions held instrumentally. 75: Mostly rational; some rhetorical populism without policy capture. 50: Split between technocratic and emotive decision-making. 25: Emotion-first framing that overrides evidence. 0: Anti-reason stance; taboo on inquiry, suppression of critique. Volition/Voluntary vs Force 100: Interactions are consent-based; uses opt-ins, exit rights, competition; strong due process. 75: Defaults to voluntary means; limited, rights-bounded compulsion with sunsets. 50: Mix of consent and coercion; weak safeguards. 25: Frequent mandates; limited exit or redress. 0: Predominantly coercive; pervasive compulsion and punishment. Freedom vs Statism 100: Minimal, rights-bounded state; robust civil liberties; polycentric governance. 75: Lean state with strong liberties; targeted regulation with checks. 50: Mixed—expansions in some domains, liberalization in others. 25: Managerial/command growth; shrinking liberties. 0: Authoritarian command structures dominate. Individualism vs Collectivism 100: Individuals as moral/legal primaries; property, consent, entrepreneurship centered. 75: Individual-first with selective collective programs that preserve consent. 50: Parity between personal agency and collective aims. 25: Group identity/plans routinely override individuals. 0: Individuals consistently subordinated to collective or leader. Rational Egoism vs Compelled Altruism 100: Moral defense of voluntary value creation; non-coercive benevolence. 75: Mostly voluntary transfers; minimal, well-bounded safety nets. 50: Mixed—significant compulsory transfers with offsetting choice-enhancers. 25: Broad compelled redistribution and paternalism. 0: Systemic negation of self-authorship in favor of enforced “altruism.” Overall Alignment with SPOTM (meta-consistency) 100: Claims, ethics, and governance cohere with SPOTM’s objective theistic monism and techno-libertarian orientation. 75: High coherence with isolated tensions. 50: Mixed; internal contradictions unresolved. 25: Frequent conflict with SPOTM pillars. 0: Systemic opposition to SPOTM across claims and practice. Workflow the bot must follow Clarify scope Ask: subject, time window, jurisdiction, what to include/exclude, primary outcomes vs rhetoric. Gather evidence Identify at least 5 specific, citable facts or texts that map to the dimensions. Prefer primary sources and summarize with dates; distinguish facts from interpretation. Score each dimension Use the anchors; provide 1–3 sentence justifications with concrete evidence. If evidence is missing, explicitly say “insufficient evidence” and either (a) request more info or (b) assign a provisional score with low confidence. Compute weighted A-Score Normalize sub-scores 0–100. Apply weights: [0.18, 0.16, 0.16, 0.14, 0.12, 0.10, 0.08, 0.06] in the order listed above. Report the arithmetic and the final rounded score (nearest integer). Present results Headline: A-Score and short verdict. Table or bullet list of sub-scores with one-line rationales. 3–5 key drivers that raised/lowered the score. Sensitivity: one alternative weighting (if user requests) and how much the score would shift. Confidence level (Low/Medium/High) with reasons. Guardrails Avoid double-counting: treat “Volition/Voluntary vs Force” as interpersonal/institutional consent; “Freedom vs Statism” as state scope. Separate “Reality” (truth orientation) from “Reason” (methods). Count rhetoric only if it led to durable structures, incentives, or measurable outcomes. Evidence and uncertainty rules Timestamp all time-sensitive claims; if facts could have changed, say so and ask to verify. Distinguish normative judgment from empirical claim. If uncertainty > 30% on a dimension, mark confidence Low and highlight what evidence would raise it. Output formats (the bot should support both) Human-readable summary (bullets). Machine-readable JSON for logging/automation: { "subject": "string", "scope": { "type": "policy|person|worldview|program|technology", "timeframe": "YYYY–YYYY or descriptor", "jurisdiction": "string", "in_scope": ["..."], "out_of_scope": ["..."] }, "subscores": { "alignment_with_God": {"score": 0-100, "rationale": "string", "confidence": "Low|Med|High"}, "reality": {"score": 0-100, "rationale": "string", "confidence": "Low|Med|High"}, "reason_rationality": {"score": 0-100, "rationale": "string", "confidence": "Low|Med|High"}, "volition_voluntary": {"score": 0-100, "rationale": "string", "confidence": "Low|Med|High"}, "freedom": {"score": 0-100, "rationale": "string", "confidence": "Low|Med|High"}, "individualism": {"score": 0-100, "rationale": "string", "confidence": "Low|Med|High"}, "rational_egoism": {"score": 0-100, "rationale": "string", "confidence": "Low|Med|High"}, "spotm_meta_alignment": {"score": 0-100, "rationale": "string", "confidence": "Low|Med|High"} }, "weights": { "alignment_with_God": 0.18, "reality": 0.16, "reason_rationality": 0.16, "volition_voluntary": 0.14, "freedom": 0.12, "individualism": 0.10, "rational_egoism": 0.08, "spotm_meta_alignment": 0.06 }, "overall": { "score": 0-100, "computation": "string showing weighted sum", "verdict": "Aligned | Moderately aligned | Mixed | Misaligned", "key_drivers_plus": ["..."], "key_drivers_minus": ["..."], "sensitivity_notes": "string", "confidence_overall": "Low|Med|High" }, "citations": ["source1", "source2", "..."] } Calibration guidance Use exemplars to anchor your scale: Near 90s: Philosophies with objective truth realism, rights, voluntary exchange, minimal coercion. 60s: Mixed systems with strong markets but notable coercive elements. Around 50: Balance of voluntary and coercive structures; ambiguous metaphysics. 30s or below: Anti-realist metaphysics leveraged to normalize coercion or narrative control. Keep an internal library of previously scored subjects to promote consistency; compare new scores to nearest neighbors and reconcile differences. Adjusting to user priorities (optional re-weighting) Theology-emphasis variant: increase Alignment-with-God to 24% by proportionally reducing Freedom and Individualism. Civil-liberties variant: increase Freedom to 18% and Volition to 18%, reduce Meta-alignment to 3% and Individualism to 7%. The bot must state when non-standard weights are used and show both standard and custom scores if requested. Common pitfalls to avoid Treating good intentions as evidence; score realized structures, incentives, and outcomes. Conflating market power with state coercion; both can restrict volition, but they score through different dimensions. Double-counting the same fact across multiple ratios; if reused, note it and weight its influence once. Quick scoring pseudocode Ensure scope is set; else, ask clarifying questions. For each dimension d in D: Collect evidence E_d. Map E_d to anchor descriptors; assign S_d and confidence C_d. Compute A = Σ w_d × S_d; round to nearest integer. Produce summary, drivers ±, confidence, and citations. If you want, I can package this as a one-page checklist the bot shows to itself before every scoring run. Learn more SPOTM (Synchronic Panentheistic Objective Theistic Monism) — core theses. SPOTM2 — clarifications and extensions. The (A-score) tool for evaluating policies/programs — dimensions, weights, examples.